During labour and delivery, the abusive partner may:
- try to control decision making around the use or non-use of pain medication
and/or other interventions;
- be negative and/or unsupportive during the process of labour
- make demanding requests that the doctors restore the woman's vagina
to the way it was before the birth;
- make negative comments about the baby's gender when it is born
- attempt to woo over staff to further alienate his partner ("Mr. Charming")
Postpartum Depression (PPD)
"Failure to treat depression during pregnancy can have severe consequences
for both mothers and babies and is the strongest predictor of postpartum
depression."
Motherisk
When a woman is being abused, her ability to maintain her mental health
is compromised. Research has found that women who experienced abuse during
their pregnancies also experienced physical abuse postpartum and suffered
psychological distress as a result. (Stewart, 1994)
Studying women who experience severe postpartum depression (PPD), researchers
have found a significant correlation with a history of physical and/or sexual
abuse. Mothers who are depressed can have difficulty fostering healthy attachment
with their children, taking care of themselves and/or their children and
may be much more vulnerable to abuse from their partners. Therefore the
ability to seek supports and therefore safety, may be unattainable for her
while she is depressed. Placing too many expectations on her may result
in increasing her isolation and her withdrawal from services.
Research has also shown that infants of depressed mothers are at increased
risk of behavioural problems, emotional difficulties, and delays in growth
and language development. Studies show that depressed mothers are less involved
with their infants. (Mayo Clinic Health Information)
Identifying women who may be prone to postpartum depression, through universal
screening practices, may assist caregivers in developing plans of action
with their patients/clients to alleviate some of the impacts PPD can have
on moms and babes. For instance, plans of action may include the following:
- helping to arrange respite care
- referring her to a PPD peer support group
- arranging for postpartum follow-up with a public health nurse
- ensuring she has access to a physician if medication may be indicated
Goals include the following:
- stabilizing her depression
- increasing her safety through safety planning
- reducing her isolation
- normalizing her feelings
- offering referrals to counselling and/or shelters
Remember that her abusive partner depends on her isolation to maintain
control over her.
On-going Woman Abuse and its effects on Mothering
Ongoing woman abuse has devastating effects on a woman's ability to mother.
She may have little say in parenting decisions or she may be held solely
responsible for all infant care. Living with chaos, fear and uncertainty,
she may begin to doubt her own ability to mother. This feeling can be further
exacerbated if her abusive partner is overly critical of her parenting or
takes steps to undermine her role as a mother. For instance, being the "good
guy" and refusing to play a role in disciplining their child(ren).
He may also refuse to pay child support should she leave the relationship,
or tell the children that she is to blame for the break-up.
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Suggested reading:
Postpartum Depression: A guide for front-line
health and social service providers (2005) Centre For Addiction
and Mental Health, www.camh.net
About Woman Abuse in the Childbearing Year: page
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